Our Pahang Legal Aid Centre under Pahang Bar Comittee had an outreach programme on Saturday 31/10/2009. This time we headed for Kg. Gumum located by the famous Tasik Chini.
This is a small orang asli village which comprises of about 100 families, located about an hour drive away from Kuantan. Our 20 strong team comprised of 15 practising lawyers, 5 chambering students, our executive officer, Shikin and her assistant Hayat. Project co-ordinator is Amalia.
We all met in front of LAC building at 7am. Had breakfast at Taj and immediately left for Tasik Chini. I brought Hilman along with me, so that he could experience the kampung life of the people in Kg. Gumum. We both travelled there in Shikin's car while the rest distributed themselves into 5 other cars.
we reached the balairaya at Kg. Gumum about 9:30 am
Well you can sight all the pictures of our activity there on my FB.
It was a whole day event there. We started out by visiting all the houses to do a survey about their problems and to gauge how far they are familiar with the laws in our country. Whether or not they have dealt with the police, courts or lawyers. Whether or not they know about the laws that protect them as indigenous people, their environment and their traditional knowledge.
Don't want to ramble on indefinitely. I know I can. I have a knack for that, yes!
Just wanted to share with you readers some experience from this trip.
For a starter, a little boy made me cry there.
this little boy....
We had organised some games for the children there in the afternoon. The were telematch kinda games that involves getting sweets out of plates filled with flour. Relay with lidi and rubberbands. Fancy dress styling with newspapers only. Mummy wrapping, and many more.
In the middle of one of the games, I saw a boy, slightly bigger than this little one, hit him right smack in the face and ran away. I quickly went up to him to ask him if he was okay. He immediately teared up in his eyes and being embarassed, I guess, to cry in front of me, promptly pulled up the front of his round neck t-shirt to cover his face.
I hugged him me and could feel his little body quivering, from holding back a sob. He gulped a few times and realy tried hard not to cry. It was as if he was ashamed of crying, of giving in to the pain and hurt. It was as if it is just not done, crying on a staranger's shoulder. I kept coaxing him to pull down the shirt front, putting some sweets and snacks into his hand. I asked him why did the boy hit him.
He broke into a big sob and I heard muffled, from under the shirt, he said full of emotions and anguish, "Mentang-mentanglah kita ni duduk numpang chalet datuk dia, macam ni jer dia boleh buat kat kita"
Awwww.... that just broke my heart! When a little tyke like this spills his heart out like that, you can't help but feel the sadness that comes with realisation that even kids as small as this are aware on inequality and injustice. I wanted to cry with him, holding him tight to me. But that would cause another bigger scene. So I passed him on to some other volunteers who kept soothing him with balloons and pencils, and I walked off to somewhere I can't see or hear of him. The tears were just dying to roll off my eyes and I kept glancing up to the ceiling to prevent the spill.
I try to imagine that kind of statement coming from my own children, and the thought just squeezes my heart more. To be able to understand discrimination at such a young age is indeed sorrowful and I do admit my own kids lead a very sheltered lifee in that sense.
But, true to a kid's spirit. He was up and about after a while and I saw himchasing some friends around in full camarederie. All the pain and tears seems to be forgotten. I thought to myself, he's over it already, why am I still not?
I took that tinge of sadness back with me to Kuantan and till the day I wrote this piece, I still have that faint feeling of sadness for that little boy and what he went through.
I also learnt the art of sharing from the kids in Kampung Gumum that trip.
We organised coloring contests, games and lots of competitions for them. Winners were given small hampers of food and stationeries. There were broken up into groups of six. In the hampers, the were some foodstuffs, like snacks, biscuits and soft drinks, packed randomly to be a mix of everything.
When we handed over the food hampers to the winning group we did tell the older ones to open it up and distribute it to the smaller ones. And I thought that they would do it the way we usually do it, a packet for each members.
But, I saw that they did it differently. Their spirit of equality and sharing is much more comprehensive and just. The older ones will open up the food hamper, and then they also opened up the packs of biscuits and food inside and then they divide it equally among themselves! Everyone then gets everything!
see how they use the plastic hamper wrapper to collect all and then divide all
The older ones, showed their sense of responsibility when after the division has been made, they tore the plastic hamper wrapper into smaller portions and wrapped the divided food up for the little ones.
This way, the are ensured that they get a taste of everything, albeit in small amounts each.
Seeing them in operation, I noted to myself that instead of coming here on a mission to 'educate' them about the so called outside world, I received a form of education myself. I learnt that sharing means that, sharing in equality. I learnt that even if the things to be shared is small in number or amount, it still can be done, fairly.
It is an eye opener and a humbling experience to learn from one so small and yet so wise and honest. If anything, I would say, this trip actually benefitted me more that them!
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Verse,
Very touching experience and definitely worth sharing.
LAC bagi tak us non-legal people to tag along? Nak juga pegi melawat Kg Orang Asli kat negeri Johor ni...
I dunno abt The Johar Bar punya LAC, whether they do this kind of outreach programmes.
Ours do allow, non lawyers to tag along. Snakebite used to tag along with us when he was in Pahang. This time round, we also had a non lawyer who came with us to Kg. Gumum. She helped organise the games for the children there!
You seem to have such wide opportunity to mingle with the needy and the less-visited..jeles lagi..
baca this entry makes me tear up. so membawa keinsafan dengar cerita budak2 ini.
mekyam,
to see more photos of them, go to my page at FB. They are so lucky to stay in a beautiful kampung, far from the pollution of the city and the corruption of morals that comes along with city dwelling!
HLiza,
terkebetulan berkesempatan dear. Sekali-sekala turun ke kampung-kampung gini melahirkan keinsafan dan kesyukuran dalam diri kita juga!
Aunty Ahan,
I want a hug too! Lain kali ajaklah, nak itot!!! meow!
I'm sure you all can easily factor in some games involving cats. I can give a lecture on animal abuse policy etc etc etc.
Very humbling experience indeed. Tima kasih for sharing... kalu ada share lagi eh?
wish our children have the same spirit of sharing equally everything tu kan.
but then lawyers kurang kerja pulak sebab nobody fight over harta pusaka parents....
i teringat cerita i dulu about the children at the orphanage kat kuantan dulu, tapi i dah delete rasanya.
Cat-In-Sydney,
next time, we will organise a game called Hug the Cat okay, just for U? And that talk about pet's abuse, we would certainly welcome such a renowned speaker like U!
Lady Marko,
insyaAllah, ada kesempatan, ada rezeki, perkongsian ini akan berterusan!
Snakebite,
our children have been brought up in a cushy and easy life. I bet those biscuits dun mean nothing to our kids becoz they easily get them and its available around the house in abundance.
so, it such an eye opener for me to see those kids there sharing in that manner coz they all want a taste of all types of biscuits!
Tu lah awak nih! Tulis2, pastu padam... tulis lagi, padam lagi. Pastu mulalah... cari balik posting yg relevan dah jumpa! I say, tok sah tulis kalu agak2 nak memadam!
ahan, i did. all 166 of them. :D
you're right. it looks so beautiful there. those teratais are simply gorgeous. did you get to eat a lot of the fruits and/or the roots?
love the pix of flowers. btw, bunga yg you tak tahu nama tu is probably a species of canna lily. i also macam bagus named a few other flowers you snapped.
love pix of kids having fun. cute!
ahan, your writing sure has its way in making Gayah Ati Kental Kering Kontang ni tercebik cebik kesat mata laju2 takut orang lain nampak kat opis.
you are right LadyM. a very humbling experience indeed.
ha..nasib baik sikit je pic..letak banyak..mak merana nyahh.. hahhahaha..
nak tengok kat FB, tak larat..banyak sgt..
QutaQ,
ngko tuh, merana sokmo Nyah. Apahal lah lu...
Cheer up skit! Life's too short to spend it in merana state!
Gayah,
if U were there at that time, I can guarantee a bucketful of tears. Mmg retuh hati orang tua bila dengar rintihan hati budak2 tau!
Mek Yam,
thank you for taking time to see all those pics, time cosuming and all.
I did ate some of the lotus seeds during the boat ride. Didn't get any lotus roots though, coz we didn't pull any out... too messy!
nice piece of experience. Priceless!
DrSam,
thank you for stopping by to read!
Good onya Ahan, u r truly one tough cookie with a soft side. If only there’re more ppl like u around, the world would be a much better place. Gee I just love a spunk like you!
Salute,
Tommy
Tommy,
aiyaaa... so paisey lah puji-puji like that.
Everybody can do some good, I believe, even in a small way. It will make the world a better place!
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